Silly Girls & Double
Standards
08-02-10
Okay, so
I'm used to hearing some whiny girls fuss: “OMG I HATE BOYS!
OMG BOYS SUCK! OMG BLA BLA BLA BLA BLA!” Then, like flies on
waste, out of NOWHERE the chorus chimes in: “MMHMM YOU KNOW IT!
THEY ARE JUST WORTHLESS, USELESS, HEARTLESS MORONS. I DON'T NEED A
MAN.
WHO NEEDS 'EM?” However, in the last two weeks, it's been a
sort of open season on men. Tonight, I just came to look at my
newsfeed on Facebook, and there's like THREE GIRLS DOWNRIGHT BASHING
MEN, TOTALLY UNRELATED INCIDENTS, AT ONCE.
Okay, so
all this is wrong,
but it's good and fine. However, let a male
try something about a dang female, and
all the sudden he's a jerk, an ass, sexist, chauvinist, a Nazi, a
communist, a baby killer, a puppy smotherer, a kitten killer, and
anything else horrible he can be labeled as. Then he's blackballed
from the dating community, and before long, he's executed by lethal
injection, if he's lucky. One way or another, a woman will kill him
most likely. Hell, just ask my dad (RIP)... (Of course, I spoke out
once anyway ;) http://boholt.com/vday.htm
)
Anyway...
jokes aside... and this
does not apply to all females. God bless those of you with a good
head on your shoulder. Let's
get to my point:
Girls:
Listen up, and LISTEN WELL. I'm sure, when you were dating the said
loser who got your panties all in a wad, there was someone who told
you not
to date him, probably a guy friend who really liked you but you
thought of as “just a friend”. I bet someone
told you there were red flags. I bet a brother, sister, aunt, uncle,
father, or someone
told you to proceed with caution. Obviously, you didn't listen.
Then, when some boy
who you mistook as man
broke your heart,
you illogically decided to hate anything that has a Y chromosome.
However, this pattern seems
to repeat.
(The flip-side to this scenario is maybe a girl is bi-polar and the
man really didn't
do anything wrong, but he was dealing with Dr. Jeckyll and Mr.
Hyde... I've seen that one before too... but for the sake of this
point, we're going to assume all parties are mentally stable!)
I
have been in love a handful of times in my life. I treated those
women like princesses. I loved
her, and I behaved exactly as I was taught by my father and how a man
shout treat
a lady. Treat a lady with respect. Put her needs before yours.
Take care of her. Surprise her. Make her feel special, needed, and
loved... Well guess what? That's not good enough either. Security,
stability, and what makes a man
a man
has become boooooring
or something to many of our female friends who would rather have a
guy to fuss about who does NOT do things things instead of dating one
who DOES do these things. So, guess what? Yep! My heart, and tons
of guy's hearts, was stabbed with a dull knife too, broken, and left
without care. Now, I know some of you are gasping, but it's true!
Guess what, girls? Men
fall in love too, and little things supposedly made of “sugar
and spice and everything nice” can be waaaay more cutthroat &
hatefull and cruel than any man that I know!
Hey, if you don't believe me, go watch how 7th
and 8th
grade girls treat the boys in their classes... brutal... However,
the funny thing is, I have had many,
many women agree with me on this!
Have
I been bitter about it? You bet your sweet little tail
I have been. Do I hate females? No!
There were times when it was hard not to, but I had to look to my
brain instead of my heart and illogical, misplaced anger. I haven't
given up on finding the right one, marrying her, and coming home to
something a lot better than a damn lonely, empty house every day
after work! … but I'm tired of girls being able to sit around
and generalize all males into a certain category yet we have to take
an unfair wrap and get criticized ourselves for pointing these things
out. It sucks.
Anyway...
Put this modern-day crap
out of the way. It takes a MAN AND A WOMAN to start a family, and a
stable household has a mother and a father, to raise the kids
together. Man and woman need
one
another.
God designed us this way for a reason. I trust His judgement a lot
better than mine, and I certainly
trust it more than some dope-smokin', tree-huggin', free love-makin'
hippie idea from the morally-bankrupt ideas hallucinated up in the
60s during some damn acid trips.... I still have the right to
believe that and come to those conclusions, right? I'm not sure if
Obama and Congress has taken that
liberty away yet... Hell, this may be a “thought crime”
or something... and yes, there was
a “thought crimes” bill proposed... not kidding on that
one...
Again,
to all you good women out there, God bless you. There's a host of
men out there who surely appreciate you, need you, and we love
you for loving us. To all you disgruntled girls out there, try
picking yourselves up. Try something new. Insanity is trying the
same thing over and over and expecting different results! If you
dated a loser, learn which qualities (or lack thereof) to avoid next
time! We are thinking creatures with brains. God gave us those
brains for a reason. When the brain and the heart can work together,
you may be surprised what happiness you can find. That's what we all
ultimately want. Stop lumping all males together. A joke is a joke,
but I know many of you who are as serious as can be and actually
think this misguided way.
Okay,
so that rant was all over the place... but it's off my chest now.
;)
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